Monday, February 28, 2011

Updates are fun

Yeah I know I've been more or less ignoring my blog as of late. Either I've been too busy with other things or just haven't been able to get myself to sit down for long enough to type something out. ^^; So this is going to end up being a multi subject one.

First off is something I've been meaning to type up for a while and that was that huge hacking issue that FA had. Something like that isn't something to be taken lightly in any account. Especially when you have a site full of users that rely on you. But I knew the whole situation wouldn't be resolved properly. When it came down to it instead of posting a journal on FA about the whole situation, so that all users could reply to it, he posted a small link at the top of FA for a few days to livejournal. So regardless I figured it was worth a shot myself and ask him a few questions about everything. Though of course that didn't go anywhere. This was my comment towards him and his halfassed response.
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Basically ignoring some of my comments and halfassing the other like I said. More than likely because he doesn't actually have a good response for it. That and after a while he just stopped answering questions in general. Along with just pushing it to the side and covering it up like most people figured would happen. Then a good while after all of that and that whole Zaush issue came up a drawing pops up from Zaush. That was supposedly a gift for Dragoneer and Sciggles. My guess it's because of that whole issue and how Dragoneer more or less supported Zaush in it, but I'm not sure.

The other odd thing was how all these admins supposedly resigned on their own not long after all of this had happened. I honestly think there's a lot more to it than that or what has been said. However I don't know any specifics on it myself. It just seemed really odd. Especially with Pinkuh resigning when everyone knew how much she loved having power on FA.

But we'll see what happens now. Because I know more and more people are becoming unhappy with the site. I'd leave myself, but there arn't any other sites where I'd be able to find everyone I know on them. So I'm more or less stuck.

The second and third part here is something of old news. First is about the issues I've had with Cyrsynik. This thing has been going on for months now and flares up every once in a while. Nothing new has really happened with me as of late, except for him trying to spread more lies about me, him admitting to being into beastiality on FA, nothing being done about it and Dragoneer actually trying to turn it around on one of my friends.

Though I had something interesting happen. I had someone contact me recently that I knew was friends at one point with Cy so I figured I was going to get another headache. However it turns out he's been burned by Cy as well. So we talked a bit and found out he even had to call the cops as well on Cy because he wouldn't quit it with him either. I'm not going to go into detail on all of it, but it's just sad that people don't realize this guy is bad new. Though it's mostly because he's that good at lying. Only difference is he has no way of really backing it up. That's probably why I got his yesterday on Yahoo.
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It's probably because he's getting tired of trying to lie to everyone about everything that's been happening. The one thing I find funny is apparently all the furs in PA now hate him. It's really not surprising with how he tends to treat and act with people at times. Along with there's plenty of people in the other states he's lived in that feel the same way towards him.

But either way it's all going to come crashing down on him. And by the sounds of what's happening lately it's starting. Because I heard from my friend Wonder, who works at the same place as him, that they are looking into the threat that Cy made towards certain people that fly on Delta and US airlines. That and he's send me two offline messages now on Yahoo with his alternate account. And by the sounds of it everything's finally starting to sink in with him that it's all serious. Especially since he's trying to patch things up now and such. Here's the screenshots of those.
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Right now I'm just trying to figure out where to take this. Because I'm not going to be nice about it.

Lastly is the subject of Allan. Sadly he's more or less continuing his old crap. Ever since he got banned from WYS he's done a complete 180. Most of it is going back and getting as many commissions as possible and badmouthing basically everyone that doesn't support him. Especially people like me, Silver and Syn. Though I think I always rubbed him the wrong way because I never gave into him and tried becoming his friend. I basically always told him that I will still feel the way I feel unless I see a complete change and no relapses.

But he's also gone around saying how he's going to Anthrocon again and fuck everyone else. So I hope plenty of people, including myself, tell him off again this year if they see him lurking around.

That and it's kind of sad and funny on how he posted a journal on his Inkbunny account basically looking for asspats because it's been two years since he got banned from FA. But oh no he doesn't care about FA anymore or getting back on there. Yet he's kept track of the exact date that he was originally banned from there. Yeah you are so full of shit. Along with it's sad that you're going and bragging that you donated money to IB and Sofury. More than likely doing it so he can brag to people more and make it look like he's a "good guy." However if you go around doing that sort of thing it basically means the opposite. But again he'll get what's coming to him in the end. One way or another.

But either way I'm just kind of sitting back and seeing what happens with all of this. As of now I've made a more permanent account on Sofurry since FA is crapping out so much now and is basically killing itself.

Monday, November 22, 2010

My Problem with Authority Figures

This is an issue I've had for a long while now. That and I've been meaning to write something up on it. With me it's never been one of those rebellious things. Where I don't want to follow orders or whatever. With me I've always had my own reasons or whatever why I've just never really liked those types of people and they've given me plenty of reasons as to why I feel the way I do.

I know with me it started in school with the principles or even some of the teachers. Some of you know that I had issues while I was in school and I was one of the type that got picked on a good deal. So of course I fought back and that usually meant hitting them to try and get the point across to not screw with me. Granted yes I know that sort of thing is frowned upon either way. But whenever I would tell them the situation they would say that they would take care of the situation and say something to the other kids, but nothing would be done. They either wouldn't say anything or they would and it would continue and nothing else would be done about it. That whole sort of situation ended up carrying on throughout high school. Hence why I don't tolerate idiots very well anymore.

One issues that I know plenty of people have is not really liking the government or whatever. I'm not sure what really started it, but I know it's only really risen itself a few years ago. I've just grown to not trust people like that with a lot of power and money. Because they don't always tell the truth and they don't keep their promises. That's part of the reason why I don't vote. Though you always hear the thing of you should vote because you can change these things or whatever. I frankly don't believe that a lot of times. Because for one even if you vote for someone that you think would be good they could always turn around and do whatever they want anyways. Along with most of the people voting are complete idiots anyways and don't know what's right for them or what will be right. Hence why people still think Palin would be a good candidate.

This is one of my biggest issues at times and that's with managers at the jobs I've held. I know I didn't really recognize it till about halfway through my first job, but it was always there. Basically the whole thing of managers at jobs giving certain people special privileges, not going their job and slacking off because they feel they can and just having other people do the work. It was most evident while working at my past job at Petsmart. The managers were allowed to come in and leave whenever they wanted. I was basically doing a managers job because she didn't want to do it and not getting equal pay. That and I was fired just because of something a manager said and could not prove. Just because her status was higher then mine.

This last one I'm really not surprised of and most probably arn't surprised I'm mentioning something about it. And that would be the admins on FA. Yes you can argue the fact that I don't donate any money to the site so I shouldn't bitch about how things are run. But I really don't believe that myself. Whether or not I donate to the site should not dictate if it is run properly or not and if I should have a say in it. There are a few of the admins that I don't really have an issue with. The small problems that I've had they more or less solved them and replied to my trouble tickets fairly quickly. But most of them I don't believe should be allowed to have that sort of power. One recently I found out was suspended from admin status and I couldn't help but laugh about it. Because she shouldn't be an admin. Any of the recent issues I've had she's simply responded to my trouble tickets by saying I should if I have not block the person and leave it at that. Yet on every banned or many suspended pages they post that harassment is not tolerated on the site. Well apparently it is. They just choose when to care about it or not. They don't always care of something is happening if it can be simply covered up. Even if said person will continue doing what they've done.

I've also had the issue of trouble tickets staying unanswered for weeks or even months at a time and when I say something about it they half ass the issue or just ignore it completely. Many of you are aware of the issues I've had with Cyrsynik. I've posted at least two trouble tickets concerning what he's done on the site. The first one was posted on 8/26, Pinkuh of all people answered it, which instantly made me groan. She started giving me excuses that were stupid and I showed her so. After that she seemed like she was going to try working on the issue. But after her second reply the trouble ticket was ignored. So I waited a few weeks, closed it, opened a new one on 9/7 and waited some more. After that I sent a note to Dragoneer, even though I wasn't holding my breath, to see if he'll help with it. After getting a reply and sending him everything it was ignored as well. And the trouble ticket on the issue sits open still and unreplied to. And when some of the issues that were proven with Pinkuh were brought up with Dragoneer he got irritated because he didn't want to see the truth and decided to simply step away. Instead of taking responsibility for the admins that he appoints. I know a lot of people bitch about stupid and pointless things and do it all the time. That's one of the reasons there's so many issues on the site and I know how annoying it is to deal with it. But when something serious comes up and is ignored there's basically no excuse for it. Though I still say that they pick and choose who they actually help. And if they don't like someone on the site then they won't help them how they're supposed to.

One thing recently though that's rubbed me the wrong way is the fact that Sciggles can apparently get away with whatever she wants on the site because she's with Dragoneer. Granted some of the other admins are involved in this whole thing, but as usual I don't expect anything to be done about it. What I'm talking about is the whole "veggie dog" thing. Anyone with half a brain should be able to realize what it's about. Especially if they followed any of the Allan drama. Funny part is I remember Dragoneer specifically saying at one point that no one is to start anything with him no matter what. Because it'll just cause more issues and if anyone does they will be banned. Well apparently it doesn't matter of his girlfriend and some of his admins start something up. Because what the meme is about, if you don't know, is you draw a canine with headphones and a bandanna and name it after a vegetable. She even tried acting "cute" with me and tried to act like she doesn't know what I'm talking about and, "what's wrong with drawing a canine with headphones and a bandanna?" Yeah I'm not stupid I know what you're doing. But of course nothing can and will be done about it. Just about everyone that knows me knows I don't like Allan and I still think he's an idiot. Especially after that last stunt he pulled, but I just think this whole thing she started up is sad and pathetic. But again there's nothing you can really do about it or any of the other situations I've mentioned. As far as the trouble ticket I'm just going to leave it there and see how long it takes till someone decides to do something about it. Though more than likely they'll just look at it and close it due to it's date.

Tuesday, October 12, 2010

Updates on Stupid

So here's a little update on a certain idiot that doesn't seem to know when to leave well enough alone. I'm talking about Cyrsynik once again.

Now where to start on this one...well for one thing it's funny at all the things he's done behind my back and then tried to act stupid about with other people that he's talked to. For one thing he tried showing at least one person a link to those nude photos of Kep, which I got taken down, he's started stalking several people I know and that had bad mouthed him in that one journal. He's even lied about where he lied to to try and get a reaction out of me. I've also gone and reported more or less everything that's happened up to this point to the police. Which in turn left a voice mail on his cell, but he decided not to take it seriously and just laughed about it. I've also reported what he's done on FA to the admins via TT, but it's been more or less ignored. When I first reported it Pinkuh answered it and was giving me some bs and then didn't come back to it. So I went, closed it and opened a new one. That one is currently being ignored. I then proceeded to send a note to Dragoneer about the situation. He replied once and I gave him the desired info, but got nothing else after that. I went and sent him another note a week or so later asking about it and of course got no response from that. So at this point I figure nothing is going to be done about the situation and it will continue to be unresolved on FA. Thanks again for letting me believe that this sort of thing is allowed on the site.

As far as anything else Cyrsynik has mostly been pestering Syn. I have all the conversation logs that have transpired between them and will post them on here a little further down. For the most part I've just laughed about them. Oh yeah and I know you already know my answer, but as far as you trying to apologize for everything. Again you can kiss my ass and go drown in a pool of your own shit because I don't want to hear it and it still wouldn't mean anything to me if you did.

His latest stunt is he's created a fake Yahoo account in an attempt to get both me and Syn to talk to him. However it's sadly obvious as to who it really is. One of the things that gives it away is the fact that apparently this "friend" works with Cyrsynik, but had no idea what his real name was...right. Along with the fact that the other day when I was doing a livestream the Vex guy somehow knew that I was doing it and watched me. When the guy doesn't even have an FA page at all. Along with they watched me about the same time that Cyrsynik left a comment on a friends journal. He's also sent me a message about a month or so ago now on xbox live because I had apparently not blocked him on there. So I just took a photo of it and blocked contact with him.

So as far as I'm concerned this whole situation won't really end. The guy doesn't understand anything and isn't taking the cops seriously and the FA staff arn't handling the situation at all as usual.

So here are the links to the convo longs that Syn has had with him and the one I've had with "vex".

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Sunday, September 5, 2010

Don't post your feeling on FA

So to start off this post I wanted to explain something. I don't post these blogs like I do or some of the journals I do on FA because I want attention, I'm trying to impress people or trying to cry to people about something. With these blogs I'm trying to point out certain people in this fandom that decide to act a certain way so other people know about them and won't have to deal with them themselves.

Now with that out of the way this post is about www.furaffinity.net/user/enkaixiomasa .

From what I had gathered they were one of the people watching me and more or less just watching from the shadows. They never commented on anything, never faved anything, they were just kind of there. I don't even remember when exactly they had watched me or if they had commented on anything. At least till I posted this journal. www.furaffinity.net/journal/1639301 And apparently he didn't like it. As I say people are entitled to their opinions and such, but when they're just going to be a blatant dick with me on a topic then I'm not going to be all sunshine and rainbows.

So a little while into the discussion he left me a shout on my page saying something along the lines of, "I'm unwatching you for being a complete baby." >.> Wow well for one thing I don't know how I was actually crying in this journal and secondly as I had stated in a journal after that one I didn't care. So there was no reason to make yourself look like even more of a dick/idiot by posting that. Because I'm not someone that cares about having more view or more watches or whatever. I'm here to post my stuff, to joke and have fun when I can and to make friends.

So to a degree I just figured he had some kind of beef with me and ignored what he was doing because I knew he was just trying to get me riled up. Though after looking around a bit I saw other comments like his on my profile. He for whatever reason seems to go around being a blatant dick on people's profiles for whatever reason. Along with he makes himself sound retarded by commenting on a drawing and going, "Crux approves of this."

And his latest little escapade apparently he's joined with his other half of a brain and started commenting on Tuqiri's page. Though I still can't wrap my head around his logic. He even admits to wanting to troll Tuqiri, but then wants to be buddies because he doesn't like me. Go team stupid. ^^;

Tuesday, August 24, 2010

Money talks shit walks

And this shit really gets around. For starters the person I'm talking about is www.furaffinity.net/user/cyrsynik So where to start on this. Well for starters he was one of the people I had mentioned in a previous blog that was about my idiot ex, which that's oddly enough how I met him.

Seemed like he was normal enough at first of course, but then the shit started to happen. Found out he was interested in my ex, even after my ex had used him, and wouldn't let him drop. I accepted that and let you make your own stupid mistake with that. But then while I'm trying to help you and such and get you to understand a few other things you treat me like this and give me the emo treatment and wouldn't listen about not wanting to rp with you. That's the exact moment where I lost trust in you.

Time went on and I continued to have little contact with him because I didn't feel comfortable talking to him anymore, but it was easier to just deal with him than it was to tell him off.

At one point he broke up with his one mate...like five times or something like that. I more or less lost count at one point and he ended up throwing a fit. Basically putting up pissy and emo journal one after another. Along with, I may be wrong on this, his or it was at least someone's personal info on FA after he got pissed of and started throwing a fit. After a while he deleted those things, because I don't think anyone reported him. Otherwise he would have been banned for a while from the site. Crap like this happened off and on for a little while over the past year or so.

Then one of his biggest little fits he pulled the suicide card. But did it with the wrong person. Because they actually took it seriously, called the cops and got cyrsynik thrown into jail for it.

Time went by and like I said I never regained trust in him, but apparently I had to win trust back in him because I told my friends when he was badmouthing them to me. Along with he started to become one of those people that didn't understand what relationships were and kept trying to go after Kep and even admitted that he liked me.

Even at one point recently, right before Anthrocon actually, Kep tells me that cyrsynik tried going after him yet again, saying how he wanted to be with Kep and such, and Kep shot him down and I had a good laugh.

Now we get to about a week ago. I heard that cyrsynik was being snippy and such to Kep and I had more or less had enough. So I went and told cyrsynik that he needed to cut that crap out because I've had enough of it. So he had said a few things which caused me to post that one journal on FA. Here's the texts he sent me during all of that.

"What's up?

I was doing no such thing. D:

Well I guess hes upset at something but wont tell me what, then he blocked me because I asked him about it. You have fun with that im going to go bone a dragon, Goodbye.

...im only mated to one person. And i never left hbim. But ok? Not like what you have is much of one either. Considering i moved out and live with my partner. *chuckles* and i could tell you stories naki :3 aaaaanyway tell him i said im open to talk if he wants.

Well ok. But just for kicks me and kep had plenty of paw sessions over the phone and he has sent me quite a few pictures of him in his loincloth and such ;p anyways. I'm glad to see your being mature about this. I'll see you next ac. As for him i don't know. He's mad because I wouldn't yiff him so whatever. I can send you the logs if you want proof.

What question?

:/ you know, this is all stupid right?

Well then we can move past it. I'll unblock you from fa when I go back inside. Dude seriously naki i'm not oging to fight with you over relationships. What I said was just not the right thing. But ayways either or your still a great friend, weather you believe it or not.

So can we move on with this?

Well it's gone naki. But i think we both should get some much needed rest. I hope to hear from you soon huskybutt."

He continued to try and contact me and I ignored it. Then at one point several days later after he had noticed my journal he started sending me these texts.

"Hey Naki you ok now?

Naki...can you please reply?

*sighs* fine. You can hate me all you want but I will not be called a liar. Please take that journal down.

I wasn't lying...just so you know. Your still a good friend just so you know.

(Later in the day)

Yeah, well im not saying i should have done what i did. i'm sorry about it naki. but he even told you himself he was having a bad day.

Ummm naki, that was like forever ago. I mean fine so be it if he was sorry for me i don't care. The poin tis that we, meaning all 3 of us, were friends. I don't want it to end. I'm not asking for all your trust back either, i just don't want to lose you two. Besides like Kepwould leave you for my ugly ass anyways.

No, it's never too late. I don't see why you hate me so much anyway.

Well I didn't. I figured hed hate me for the rest of forever. And seriously, this is a dumb reason to be fighting. Just let it go naki, please.

Why? Because i -used- to date stray? I just want a reason as to why you can't just forgive me. I's like the littlest fuck up i do sets you off.

*sighs* whatever naki. Your being immature about this. And at least I don't live with my fucking mom still. Fuck you you fiece of shit.

Good call lol"

So for one thing. He apparently wasn't lying about those few things he said about Kep. But we talked about it, I was able to calm Kep down and we worked things out. However cyrsynik couldn't seem to get it through his head that messing with someones relationship is a perfectly good reason to be pissed off at someone.

So after everything luckily Kep listened to me and we more or less blocked him and got rid of him on everything that we could. Though he's still able to text me with his phone and he's been continuing to try and contact me to talk to me again. Yesterday he sent me a few texts trying to contact me once again and then sent me this one. Probably after I had mentioned my ex in one of my friends journals.

"Hey, for the record, if you don't want these precious pictures of your wolf spreading around, then leave stray alone. Got it? :) This is not up for negotiation. Have a nice day."

So yeah this is the kind of person he is like I said. He'll get pissed off and basically threaten to spread around personal information and such because he doesn't really have any balls.

Like I've said before you are plum out of luck if you think me and Kep are going to want to talk to you again so unless you want to make yourself look like even more of a pathetic idiot you might want to try and stop contacting us.

Tuesday, August 3, 2010

The Fakers

This is one thing the fandom is full of sadly enough. People that try to act like something they're not either to get attention or just because. I know there's some out there that do it because they have different characters or whatever. For me I am who I am. I state how I am in my profile and don't hide anything. As I say in it I'm a good guy, you just don't start shit with me and I can be an ass when and if I need to be. I know I'm not perfect myself. Along with my character is me. That's why I act like myself and not something else. Though there are plenty of people out there that'll act all nice, but in reality they're just blatant stuck up assholes.

In this one I'm speaking specifically about baltowoof. I've only had a few run ins with him myself, but those short encounters told me a lot about him. He's a blatant asshole that's also completely stuck up about himself.

Usually I try not to judge people before I actually get to know them or anything. There are a few circumstances when I don't. But again sometimes people are able to fake it so well you're not really able to figure it out till a while after. For me everything started up when he posted a journal to a survey he was conducting on fursuiters. Basically to see who actually does sexual acts in them, which that's something else I'll comment on, and who doesn't.

One thing before I continue is another way to see how much of an asshole this guy is is the fact that he had a suit that was made for someone else and before he gave it to said person he had sex with it and posted videos of it on xtube. Yeah you don't do that with someone elses suit.

But as I was saying he posted the results a few days or so in the journal and it said most furs didn't do anything sexual in their suits. He also included in the description of the journal that anyone that was to troll or start drama with all of this will receive a temporary block on his page. Now I wish I had screen shots of all of this, but I don't. So I commented in it saying something along the lines of, "I wonder how many people were telling the truth in this." He proceeded to reply to me saying something like, "Please keep your thoughts off of my journal." I didn't know if he was being serious of if he was just being stupid with me. So I ended up commenting back with, "That's just what I'm thinking. Imagine what actually comes out of my mouth." I don't completely remember what he said back but it was something just like, "uh huh." and blocked me. I was actually going to reply to that saying I didn't know if he was being serious or not, but I was just kind of joking around with it then, but that obviously didn't happen.

So I was confused as to what had happened so I made an account quick so I could ask him about it. This is what happened through the notes on it.

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The last one there is one he sent me on that account after I more or less told him off and blocked him on my actual account. I was mostly saying on how I don't know what his issue is, but I had lost a lot of respect for him after pulling that little stunt. That and how he wasn't going to hear from me again. I hadn't checked that account since all of this went down so it was almost a year later that I read that last note.

Which again it just makes him look like a complete dick again. By the sounds of it he just posts journals on his page more or less to get attention. Because as he stated he doesn't want people to comment in them or leave feedback in his journals. Yet he continues to post them. >.>

Then several months later he started having an emo fit or something like that. Because he deleted most of his account and posted this on the front page of it.
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By red13nanaki at 2010-08-03

I figured he was having a fit that people like him tend to have and abandoned his account. Apparently sometime after this he put up a journal where he completely spazzed out or something. Either I just don't remember it or I just never saw it. But this is the resulting journal from that and my comments to it.

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After all of this I realized I wasn't the only one that had issues with or that thought he was an ass. So apparently it wasn't just me. The thing I still find funny is the fact that I actually made a good friend out of all of this. Though after all of this was over he deleted the journal and tried to wash his hands of it as well.

Time went on and nothing really happened. I've seen him post more asshole/whoring journals for attention, but nothing juicy. Though at one point I stumbled across his twitter page, which he as locked, but he had a real photo of himself as an icon. Which as far as I'm concerned it just makes him look like even more of an ass.
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Then comes Anthrocon this year. As many of you know I went and had a blast. Though at one point me, Ana, Syn and her mate were walking through the tunnel that leads to the bridge that goes to the Westen. That's when two suiters were walking by and I more or less didn't pay them any attention. Though out of the corner of my eye I was one of them doing that whole, "I'm scratching my cheek, but I'm actually flicking you off, thing." I just kind of chuckled a little bit and wondered what that was about. That's when Ana turned to me and stared asking if I knew who they were. Which turns out it was Azure and Balto. So he thought he'd be cute and flick me off in his one suit in thinking I wouldn't know who it was. Granted I didn't, but Ana did. So you're pathetic little attempt was kind of ruined there.

Then after the con a few more random little things came up. Like how he let someone else use his suit for the dance competition, which won, even though he can't dance or anything. For those of you that are wondering no I'm not jealous. I can't dance myself and I could care less. ^^; But the main reason he seems to have done it is so he can brag about it. Even though he had nothing to do with it.

His newest journal again just kind of adds to the asshole factor. http://www.furaffinity.net/journal/1602573/

Frankly I don't know what his issue is. Either he's just a flat out dick, which I think is part of it. Along with he must feel like he's better than everyone else because he has a fursuit, is in a relationship with a fursuit maker, goes to lots of cons and has several suits. That doesn't make you better than someone. Who you are and what you do decides that. Just because I draw and have a suit doesn't make me better than anyone else out there. Again these are the great people that tend to make this fandom shit anymore.

Sunday, July 18, 2010

The Ex Factor

This is something just about everyone has probably had. If not an ex in a relationship then at least an ex friend. Luckily for me I only have one, but this is someone that's caused so many headaches it's not funny and he should be avoided.

The guy I'm speaking of is straywuffy. All of this happened a long time ago and I'm glad it didn't end up going any further.

This was a guy I got in a relationship with basically just on the fact that he was willing to give me a chance. Granted a liked him a little bit, but it wasn't really much. One thing that always made me feel weird was most of the time we talked it was only having rps. Then once it was over he basically stopped talking. Things progressed and at one point we were able to convince his parents to let him visit. So he came to visit for three weeks. However during the time he was on his way here someone contacted me on myspace. I didn't think much of it at the time, but I found out later that Stray had told the guy that they were in a relationship. Things went fine for the most part during the visit except he started acting weird during the second half and he acted spoiled the whole time. Granted I was happy to do and get things for him, but he didn't even act like he wanted to do it in the first place.

At the end of the trip actually on the way to the train station he broke up with me. Granted I was devastated, but in the end I was glad to be rid of his ass. Turned out that while he was here he started to loose interest in me and started falling for one of my friends at the time. So he dumped me so he could possibly try to get with them.

I still talked to him to a degree. Partially because of the whole first love thing and because I was stupid. One of my biggest mistakes was saying he could move in with me still no matter what because he was in a bad place where he was living. Before he moved in he got with another one of my friends. Then a few days before he was to come here and meet my friend in person he dumped them.

He came and lived here for about six months. During that time it gradually got worse. One of the wost things was it really put a stress on me and Keps relationship. Which to this day I still feel bad about. But one of the things that made me kick his ass out was the friend he dumped me for he ended up getting with while he was living here. Even though I had repeatedly warned him not too. Basically because at the time...lets call him Tim...Tim was doing a lot of weird things and he was seeming to manipulate me and Stray a lot of times we talked to him. Either way Stray got with Tim though I tried to give it a chance. That's when I found out Stray was pulling the same stuff. Rping with just about everyone he could and not really acting like he was in a relationship with Tim. Along with Stray said the same stuff to them, me and several other people. Mainly saying something like, "I want to be the one to take your virginity away and you mine."

Needless to say it all came crashing down and at one point while I was visiting Kep, Stray was at my house with everyone else while I was gone, he put up an emo journal saying how he wanted to kill himself because he couldn't be with Tim anymore. So I got worried about my family and him snapping while I was gone.

So once I got back I snapped at him and told him that he has to go back home. He was partially in denial till I got the train tickets and more or less had to pack all his crap since he wouldn't.

Though once he was gone and out of the house I felt so much better. Me and Kep got back on the right track, I didn't have to waste money on him anymore and I had my room to myself again.

Months later I finally sent him a note on FA telling him I hated his guts and I wished I never met him. Then several months after that he tried to squeeze himself into a relationship with Reaper and his mates...yeah that didn't sit well. And then Reaper sent me a note saying Stray way trying to draw me and Kep into his shit again. Trying to say we ruined his life and all this crap. I sent him one back biting his head off and that was that.

Only other things that have happened since was me hearing about how he's been using more people. Basically acting like they're in a relationship when they're really not and mostly just using them for sex and such. Latest thing was him using one of my one "friend" and basically comparing them to a prostitute. I warned them about Stray, but they didn't really want to listen. Then months later now I found out that my "friend" and Stray are supposed to be in a relationship. I more or less sat back and laughed because I know it's not going to go well at all. But I could really give a damn.

So as I said in the beginning of all of this. If you should see this guy around just avoid him. From what I've heard from other people he still has not changed and more or less will just give you a big headache. Along with he can't really be trusted at all.